10gbe network cards
obviously you need to avoid two types of 10Gbe cards
also one could also consider DPDK or something similar for advanced usage like DPI
incl.
https://www.freebsd.org/cgi/man.cgi?query=netmap –> SUPPORTED DEVICES
https://www.freebsd.org/releases/13.0R/hardware/ –> search for “ASIC”
chelsio https://www.freebsd.org/cgi/man.cgi?query=cxgbe
broadcom https://www.freebsd.org/cgi/man.cgi?query=bnxt
intel https://www.freebsd.org/cgi/man.cgi?query=ixgbe
intel https://www.dragonflybsd.org/cgi/web-man?command=ix
intel https://man.netbsd.org/ixg.4 https://man.netbsd.org/ixv.4
intel https://man.netbsd.org/ixl.4 https://man.netbsd.org/iavf.4
https://undeadly.org/cgi?action=article;sid=20051115082912
anything incl.
10Gb NICs for Linux/FreeBSD - Intel X540-T2 vs Mellanox Connect-X2 vs Mellanox Connect-X3? https://www.reddit.com/r/homelab/comments/97222j/10gb_nics_for_linuxfreebsd_intel_x540t2_vs/
Top Picks for FreeNAS NICs (Networking) https://www.servethehome.com/buyers-guides/top-hardware-components-freenas-nas-servers/top-picks-freenas-nics-networking/
10Gb Ethernet NIC PCIe recommendation https://forums.freebsd.org/threads/10gb-ethernet-nic-pcie-recommendation.76442/
https://docs.broadcom.com/doc/12381557
https://www.broadcom.com/products/ethernet-connectivity/network-adapters/10gb-nic-ocp/p210p
http://core.dpdk.org/supported/nics/
http://core.dpdk.org/supported/nics/broadcom/